True Love On Demand Letter

You are out from a long time relationship; no matter if she left you or you have left her.

You are free now to do what you want and to meet who you want, when you want.

After a while you feel that you are ready to get in a new relationship. You even have met a nice girl who looks like she is interested in you. Slowly, things are getting more serious and you get to know better your new partner.

But something is bothering you, and you don't know what it is. Than you realize that she is not
doing things like you were used to be done, she is not doing things like your ex used to make
them (it's not about all things, but those you loved at your ex).

Last days I have met a friend of mine I haven't seen for a long time. It was a surprise for me
when a nice girl comes to us, and he has introduced her like his girlfriend. I didn't know that he has broken up with his ex, which is a very sexy, feminine woman.

After, his new girlfriend left, I asked my friend what happened with his ex and how things are
going in his new relationship. He told me that he is in this new relationship for over 7 months, his
girlfriend is a nice woman and he has nothing to blame her.

But, something is missing. He was used to be with a very feminine woman, which enjoyed her woman qualities all the time. He confessed me that it is very difficult for him to get used to live
without some things which he has experimented before and he knows that does exist.

He also told me something that made me smile: 'If I could take my ex qualities and put them next to my new partner's qualities I would make the perfect women for me.'

But how good it could be if we would be able to make the perfect woman? Not so good as we all
think, believe me.

I say it all the time,

-- perfection is boring.

However, a person after a breakup has to think mostly to the reasons for the breakup with his ex and not to her qualities. I am sure that you have very good reasons to break up with a person which who you have spend years together.

Relief you from your past relationship and let your new girlfriend make you happy in her own way. Learn to enjoy your girl’s qualities and personality and don't make your ex girlfriend’s qualities a problem for your present or future relationships.

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Unfortunately, the simple act of communicating with one another can lead to confused messages, or messages being missed entirely.

This is especially true when it comes to communication between men and women. It is no wonder when there is conflict, when they interpret the same conversation in different ways.

This is because of the different conversational styles of men and women.

Many examples will stereotype male andfemale responses. There are many exceptions to the examples I have identified. Analyze how you feel or respond to situations; compare them to those described, and decide if you need to change anything in your communication style.

As women grow up, talk is the thread from which relationships are woven. They develop and maintain friendships by exchanging secrets, and regard talking as the cornerstone of friendships.

Men bond as intensely as women, but their friendships are based more on doing things together and do not require talk to cement relationships. Men converse to negotiate status; women to create rapport.

Men are comfortable telling people what to do; women do not like to pull rank, so request, rather than demand (which leads the men to believe they have the right to accept or refuse the request coming from a woman).

When conversing, women face each other directly, with eyes anchored on each other's face. Men sit at angles to each other and look elsewhere in the room, perhaps periodically glancing at each other and often mirror each other's body movements.

Men's tendency to face away from them when conversing gives women the impression that the men are not listening to them, when in fact they are. The only times men will really look for any length of time at the person who is

speaking are when they are trying to evaluate whether the speaker is lying or not; the speaker is hostile and they may have to take defensive action; or they are evaluating an attractive woman.

In this last case, they will glance over the woman's body while listening to her comments. This is highly distracting to the female speaker because the man's eyes mirror that he is not really listening to what she is saying, but rather sizing her up as a woman.

Another habit that gives women the impression men are not listening is that they switch topics more often. Women tend to talk at length about one topic; men tend to jump from topic to topic.

When a woman expresses her point of view, her female listener usually expresses agreement and support, whereas men point out the other side of the issue. Women see this as disloyalty and a refusal to offer support to their ideas.

Women prefer other points of view expressed as suggestions and inquiries, rather than as direct challenges or arguments. Men are more comfortable with an oppositional style.

Men expect silent attention and interpret constant listener noise as signs of impatience on the listeners' part. When men do not make listening noises, women may assume they are not listening to them.

Women make more listening noises such as "uh-huh ..." to encourage the other person. Men often believe these noises mean the woman agrees with him, when she may not agree with him at all. Because men do not make as many listening noises, women assume they are not really listening. Men are also less likely to make non-verbal signs of listening, and many continue doing whatever they were doing before the conversation began.

Women are more likely to nod their head more, give direct eye contact, and stop whatever else they may have been doing when the conversation began.

Women often overlap and finish each other's sentences (normally, neither is offended). Men clam up or react defensively when women do this to them, because they feel the woman is trying to take over the conversation.

Men feel it is rude to finish another's comments and shows lack of attention to what they are saying, but are more likely to interrupt with negative side comments.

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To be in loved with a girl and start a relationship is a wonderful thing. Long term relationships are usually based on love, trust and honesty.

Even if honesty is very important in a relationship, sometimes may be hurtful. There are some things that can't be told to the partner because it may hurt her, or make her change the opinion about you.

For example, some bad things you've done in the past, a truth about her that will make her feel bad if you tell her, and so on.

Even if you love her very much and you are getting pretty close, these things that can affect your relationship should be kept in secret. Sometimes you can best show her your love by keeping your mouth shout.

So, before you start to be too confident and directly with her, you should take a look at these things that may destroy your relationship.
1. Never tell her she is getting fat

Even if this is true, you can't tell her this. It will make her feel very bad, and will think that you don't like her anymore. Think about how she would feel if you go there and say: '' honey, you could stand to lose a little weight ''.

Let her decide when is the time to lose weight because she will do it without you hurting her. In most of the cases when a man told her girlfriend that she got fat, he gets dumped.
2. Don't tell her how your mother would have done things

I know that for men their mothers always represent a model in life, but we have to admit that all the families are different. So, we have been raised by different kinds of parents and in different ways of life.

Everyone is taught to do things in their ways and that's why you can't ask your girlfriend to do things or to live like your mother. A woman can have her views and opinions, and all you can do about this is to tell her stories about how you were raised and how things have been done in your family. You should adapt at this new way of life, without comparing her with your mom.
3. Don't tell her that you like to visit your mom too often

Maybe in that moment you love your mother more that her, but you don't have to show it. She may think that she is competing with your mom, or worst, that you are depending on mommy. It is not at all in your favor.
4. Don't criticize her when she is trying to do her best

This is the worst thing you can do. If she sees that she is trying hard to do the things fine and you begin criticize her, she would feel disappointed that you don't know to appreciate her for the fact that she is trying her best. So you should get over it, and offer you to help her in doing that job. Maybe next time she'll be doing better.
5. Never tell her if your family doesn't like her

Even if your family dislike her, it is better to not tell her because she will get angry and insecure. This will create future problems and tension between her and your family.

All you can do is to let your family know that she is the one you have chosen and they have to respect your decision. Try to make them change their minds about her.
6. Don't remind her about your ex in a special moment

Never ever compare your dating nights or things you do together with the ones you have done with your ex. It might happen to go with her in places where you have been with the other, but don't remind her that. It is a hurtful thing for her to see that you are still thinking about the other.

Also, never compare her to your ex in bed. She will feel bad to find out that the other was better than she in bed. No woman likes to be compared to another, in any aspect.

7. Don't recognize if you have done bad things in your past

If she doesn't find out already, you better keep your mouth shout; it is in your favor. If you tell her that you have cheated your past girlfriends, for example, she will have a totally bad opinion about you, and also fell disappointed. So these things you shouldn't divulge.

8. Never tell her that a football game is more important for you than her

Even if is an important game, don't tell her to let you alone in that moment because you are busy and don't have time for her. You better smile and pretend that you are listening to her too, and try to catch the key words. She might ask you what she was talking to you to test you.
9. Don't tell her that you hate her friends

Because she knows her friends for a long time that she knows you, it is not a good idea to tell her that she doesn't like her friends, or to say something bad about them. She may get angry about this, so you better pretend that you like them and everything is ok.

10. Don't ask her to relax when she is very angry

When she is very upset, scared, or very angry the worst thing you can do is to ask her to relax. This will make her angrier because she will think that you don't take her in serious. If you upset her by making some bad things, if you just say her to relax she will understand that you are denying that there is a reason to be upset.

11. Don't tell her that you are insecure

In a relationship or dating woman is looking after a strong and confident man. So if you are insecure, or you are jealous on her because, for example, she has a better salary than yours, you have to keep this aspect just for yourself. She doesn't have to know it if you want that things between you to go well.

12. Don't declare your love during a fight

The words ‘‘I love you ‘‘mean a lot for a woman that's why it should be said at the right moment. But most of guys say this during they have a fight with their partner, in the worst moment ever.

When you are mistaking in front of her, and let’s say that you feel guilty, you want her to forgive you, so you declare your love for her. It is a wrong choice. She doesn't believe a word in what you say because she considers that if you really loved her you wouldn't upset her. You may say you love her but only after your fight is over.

13. Do not tell her that you like her girlfriend

Maybe one of her girlfriends is very beautiful and you would like to meet her first, but your actual partner shouldn't find this.

If you say her that her best friends looks very good, she will feel hurt, angry and will never trust you around her friends. So keep it secret and make sure to not be obvious from your attitude that you like staring at her girlfriend sometimes.

If you want to have a long and strong relationship you shouldn’t permit that some things you may say to destroy it. Don't be completely honest about the things which should not be told.

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Relationship are about more than sex and romance - a good relationship also requires a degree of genuine respect and compatibility - you need to be friends.

So it stands to reason that a wonderful relationship could blossom with a man who is already your friend.

After all, you already have shared memories, have talked about your feelings both happy and sad, like the same sorts of food and movies, and have a similar sense of humor. Everything, in fact, that you could possibly want in a lover.

Most men will tell you that if you want to shift a relationship from being "just friends" to lovers, all you have to do is ask. But that is not really true.

If you have been friends with a man for a long time, he is probably stopped thinking of you as potential lover long before now - even if he had hopes for more when you first became friends.

But do not give up hope - there are things you can do to make your friend into a lover:

1. Remind him that you are an attractive woman.

He is probably told you over the years what he likes best about you - and you probably know him well enough to know what he finds appealing in the women he dates. So now it is time to highlight those features in yourself and make sure he notices that you're a flesh-and-blood, dateable woman.

You do not need to go overboard and change major things about yourself - but as friends, you have been comfortable knowing that head like you no matter how you dressed, without makeup, and even when your hair was a mess.

If you want to take this relationship to another level, however, you will need to step up your game.

2. Stop treating him like a girlfriend.

You talk to you friends about everything, don't you? You gossip, complain, discuss disgusting bodily functions and talk about the other people you find attractive. It is fun, but the first step to turning him from a friend into a lover is to start treating him less like a gal-pal and more like a man you would like to date!

Flirt a little with him, in a light, humorous way, and see how he responds. Even if the flirting seems to go over his head, on some level he will take note and start thinking about you differently himself.

3. Set the stage for romance.

Spice up your "just friends" outing by skipping Starbucks and heading out to the park for a picnic instead. Or ask him to join you for dinner at restaurant that just happens to have dim lighting and a romantic ambience. Getting him in dating frame of mind is as much about the setting as the way you talk to him.

4. Have a sexy attitude.

Let's face it - if he is your friend, he is probably seen you show interest in other men, and he has grown accustomed to be treated in a purely platonic fashion. Stop thinking of him as a pal and look at him with fresh eyes - how would you respond to him if he was someone you just met and found attractive?

When you change your attitude, you will also be changing hundreds of little things about the way you relate to him, from the look in your eyes to the way you use your voice. Again, he may not pick up on it consciously at first, but hell definitely get the message.

5. Use your body to send a message. Our body language is an ancient and powerful tool for attracting mates - use it to your advantage! Lean a little closer to him when he talks to you, sit a bit closer on the couch.

Here is a useful tip. One way of sending a subconscious signal that we like someone is to "mirror" their actions - taking sips from drinks at the same time, crossing our legs the same way.

Try it, and see what happens. And don't forget to use touch. Place a hand lightly on his forearm when he tells you a joke, brush a strand of hair out of his eyes, smooth a wrinkle out of his shirt.
He will notice the change!

Most men complain about being put in the "just friends" category by the women they know. So, who knows?

He may already have feelings for you, but never believed that you would be interested in being anything more. With a little thought, a change in attitude and a lot of body language, your friend will become your lover before you know it.

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Hi Everyone,

I got a great letter from one of my Readers about
How to Draw in Your Ultimate Soulmate
I thought it would be fun to answer it her
on the True Love On Demand Blog

Here is the Letter

Space & Place of Surrender & Detachment
Let Go Your Hearts Dream of True Love.

If you want more info on How to Manifest Your
Highest & Best Ultimate Soulmate
email me at relationshipcentre@shaw.ca
and Get a Hold True Love on Demand at
www.trueloveondemand.com

Warm Regards

Dr. Robby
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