Monday, August 07, 2006
First Date Tips
Dating can be tough and first dates can be painful. So what are you to do? Here is a list of dating tips to start the year out right!· Meet your date out and drive yourself. If you want to bail out early, you won't be trapped. Also, when you have your own car. If things work out, you won't have any worries about inviting your date in or not. This helps protect you from your own impulses, because what's worse then "will he respect me in the morning?" is "How much will I hate myself when I wake up?". Also when you have your own car, no need to worry about safety, your date does not know where you live. This protects you from a date turned bad turning in to a stalking nightmare.
· Keep the date simple. You're nervous enough without making a big show, plus you don't want to lock yourself in to an evening you won't enjoy.
· Men, end the date first. You will make yourself stand out.
· Women, don't wear anything low cut or short. It sounds like an old cliché but your first date knows very little about the woman you are. He will take you at face value and you don't want to give the wrong impression.
· Wear clothing that you are comfortable and confident in. First dates are uncomfortable enough without a tight belt biting you around the waist.
· Men, be specific about where you are going. This will make the date more comfortable, and will prevent her from wearing a cocktail dress when you are taking her bowling.
· Ask about your date. Each of us knows we are the most interesting subject :) But the most interesting conversationalists are people who ask about others. Great light topics are work, hobbies, sports, kids (if they have any).
· Easy on the perfume. You want to knock his socks off, but you don't want to knock him out!
· Don't forget to use mouthwash before you go out.
· Don't order sloppy food. If you are not paying for what you order, try to stay in the middle of the menu
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Daring Dozen Email Starters
Once you get in the online dating mode, you can explore fun, creative ways to catch the attention of your prospective date using some email starters like the ones below. These "Daring Dozen" email starters can help you stand out from the rest of the pack.
Since getting noticed, and making a good love connection takes both patience and skill, let’s get started:
Email 1: Tell them about something you have in common about one of their hobbies or interests. "I saw you're into shopping, me too" ..
Email 2: Ask something specific about about their profile: "It sounds like you're a quiet person - are you shy?"
Email 3: Ask about their experiences in dating, good and bad. "What do you like best about first dates?"
Email 4: Look for something unique about them. "Wow, you like water surfing - sounds dangerous - is it fun?"
Email 5: Ask about where they live in a funny way "So you live in Nebraska, is it as boring as everyone says it is? I heard a joke about why .. " Or, "so you're from Canada, eh
Email 6: Ask about their values, read between the lines, in how they write their narrative. "You sound like you're committed to having a family - tell me about what you think family life should be all about."
Email 7: Ask if they hate sports as much as you do. "I haven't watched a sports game in years, how about you?"
Email 8: Avoid heavy topics, like war, terrorism, how bad the economy is, or other "downers". You're looking to develop a relationship with someone, not sound like a newscast.
Email 9: What's your idea of a great vacation? is a good starter, it will help you see if they're a cosmopolitan city-type of person, or somebody who enjoys more rural, scenic outdoors travel.
Email 10: Icebreakers: In the "odd but gets attention category": What's your favorite cuss word? If you could retire today, where would you live?
Email 11: Celebrities - ask what movie stars they like, and what kind of movies they enjoy. Who would you consider a role model? This can be interesting!
Email 12: What's your idea of an Ideal first date? This can help you understand what they like to eat, and if they like busy, crowded places, or quiet intimate settings.
Focus on trying to be a little different, unique. And focus on getting the right kind of attention from your prospective date, too, that you’d like. By keeping communications light and fun .. you're exploring common interests while finding out more about another person. So be yourself, and let your imagination soar!
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Since getting noticed, and making a good love connection takes both patience and skill, let’s get started:
Email 1: Tell them about something you have in common about one of their hobbies or interests. "I saw you're into shopping, me too" ..
Email 2: Ask something specific about about their profile: "It sounds like you're a quiet person - are you shy?"
Email 3: Ask about their experiences in dating, good and bad. "What do you like best about first dates?"
Email 4: Look for something unique about them. "Wow, you like water surfing - sounds dangerous - is it fun?"
Email 5: Ask about where they live in a funny way "So you live in Nebraska, is it as boring as everyone says it is? I heard a joke about why .. " Or, "so you're from Canada, eh
Email 6: Ask about their values, read between the lines, in how they write their narrative. "You sound like you're committed to having a family - tell me about what you think family life should be all about."
Email 7: Ask if they hate sports as much as you do. "I haven't watched a sports game in years, how about you?"
Email 8: Avoid heavy topics, like war, terrorism, how bad the economy is, or other "downers". You're looking to develop a relationship with someone, not sound like a newscast.
Email 9: What's your idea of a great vacation? is a good starter, it will help you see if they're a cosmopolitan city-type of person, or somebody who enjoys more rural, scenic outdoors travel.
Email 10: Icebreakers: In the "odd but gets attention category": What's your favorite cuss word? If you could retire today, where would you live?
Email 11: Celebrities - ask what movie stars they like, and what kind of movies they enjoy. Who would you consider a role model? This can be interesting!
Email 12: What's your idea of an Ideal first date? This can help you understand what they like to eat, and if they like busy, crowded places, or quiet intimate settings.
Focus on trying to be a little different, unique. And focus on getting the right kind of attention from your prospective date, too, that you’d like. By keeping communications light and fun .. you're exploring common interests while finding out more about another person. So be yourself, and let your imagination soar!
Relationship "Wizard" will teach you the little known secrets of making use of the power of the universe to get your True Love On Demand, revealed for the first time online after over 15 years of application in the physical world. Taught to only a selected, privileged few at his relationship centre, this system of method is only disclosed after much arm twisting! Grab for yourself a copy today before he changes his mind! Click Here!
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