Friday, July 07, 2006
When I'm not a Fun person to be with...
Years before I met Melody, I was a bit of a burnout physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
That’s not a fun person to be with. You sort of have two eyes staring out of their sockets, walking dead emotionally or spiritually. I had no spiritual connection to life in the world. I had been through the ambulance thing and the business thing and the bankruptcy thing and the terminal illness thing, losing everything materially and emotionally. So I was sort of a walking burnout.
This was years and years before I met Melody. I had to go on a personal journey of getting that back. Now I’m like a kid, I’m happy, da‑da‑da, totally connected, healthy. I’m in my mid 50s, but I feel and look younger, right, Kitten?
MELODY: Oh, yeah.
ROBBY: How old do I look?
ROBBY: Nineteen? Yeah, whatever. Like, hello. Duh.
I know I feel very, very young, and I look young. People think I’m very young, especially when I wear my baseball hat and I put it on backwards. I look like a gang-banger. This is Dr. Robby walking around like some thug. Thug-life. Oh, Melody, you don’t even know what that is.
You’re not even in that generation; you don’t know what thug-life is. Do you?
MELODY: I’ve heard stories. I’ve gone through generations.
ROBBY: Yeah, Melody’s a generation expert and I’m talking about generation-wise stuff.
So, Now, I’m totally fun and excited about life and not a burnout in any of those areas, and neither is Melody.
Our life is totally fun. We’re like kids, we’re young, we’re healthy, we’re happy, and that’s the vibe you need. It’s about charisma. People that are charismatic, they’re not negative and down, nothing works out, and, “Oh, I’ve been through that, I’ve got issues.” Who wants to date that? “Life is a struggle.” People want to be lifted by their partner not brought down.
If you watch “The Young and the Restless” and other soaps – Melody knows the names. I don’t know their names – it’s all about drama and struggle and negativity and issues and crises and unexplained events.
We’re trying to get YOU to create a fun life and have a fun partner, to be healthy. So those are the vibes. That’s confidence, and that’s wellness and that’s happiness and joy. There’s a difference between happiness and joy, but you want to be those vibrations.
It’s not what you do, it’s who you are; it’s what your being is, and that is your essential vibration which broadcasts, whether you want it to or not, out into the Universe which then draws in the like. That’s why you’ll skew your events.
Think of the Universe as a mosaic or a tapestry. You can pull any threads that you want and weave your own creation. But if you’re not aware of this stuff, you won’t. We want you to be authentically the best that you can be for you. I’m not saying to get an extreme makeover or hair transplant or whatever, but if you want to, great. But the key is to be a full expression, authentic vibration of you in all areas.
We are talking about being a full expression in terms of confidence and relaxed and fun and healthy on all levels. This also includes being detached and open and having faith and trust in the system; having awareness of people, personalities, the stuff we teach in Love by Design and Counsellor in a Box.
You need to be aware of the relationship game and have relationship mastery, the principles and the dynamics and the laws governing relationships, all those things we talk about in our other books, as well as how the Universal system works.
It’s real simple. I could write True Love on Demand in three sentences.
Basically, be the vibration of what you want and then forget it. That’s it. But I’m writing these books, and making 800 MP3s to explain it all. It’s kind of funny.
I’m taking Melody to her favorite place, McDonald’s. People might say, “How can you be healthy eating that?” Well, it’s a treat once in a while. You need to eat right for your body type and your metabolism and physiology. For me, I just throw the buns away.
In any event, as you can see, if you are these kinds of things and you are having this type of vibration that denotes you being as someone who’s functional, available, healthy in many ways, at peace, confident, assured, well, this is a vibration that is very attractive.
Especially if you are someone who’s eliminated their deficiencies and toxicities, and someone who is available emotionally and not shut down and not messed up by all of their past issues, you will be a functional partner.
As well, if you are someone who’s overcome and eliminated any dysfunctional programming or patterns that you may have inherited from trauma or bad past relationships, or from their family or society, then you’re going to have a pure, clean vibration, like a child, and you’ll have your ideal mate drawn to you and come out of left field when you least expect it.
It’s like animals, they’re not messed up by all this psychology stuff. They just draw in their mate, naturally.
We watched this little penguin movie and how the penguins met each other from all different places, from Antarctica; they found their soul mate, and they’re looking in each other’s eyes.
That was kind of neat.
That’s kind of how I feel with Melody. She feels like another little animal in my species. As they said in Wedding Crashers, the counterpoint to my soul. Right? Your soul’s counterpoint?
That’s kind of neat in many ways.
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Building A Loving, Trusting Friendships That Can Lead To Lasting, Offline Relationships!
Online dating offers a fun and secure environment to meet other quality singles. It’s also a great place to build loving and trusting friendships that can lead to lasting, offline relationships. Whether you decide to correspond online or meet members offline, sound judgment and responsibility for conduct is strongly advised. In both the virtual and real worlds, common sense is the best safety tool.
The following are online dating tips for a woman:
One of the online dating tips for a woman is to begin by communicating solely via email, then look for odd behavior or inconsistencies. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection.
Another online dating tips for a woman is to maintain anonymity by never including your last name, email address, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your free profile or initial messages.
Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.
One good online dating tips for a woman is to keep guard against trusting the untrustworthy; suitors must earn your trust gradually, through consistently honorable, forthright behavior.
Requesting for a photo is one good online dating tips for a woman. This way you’ll have a good idea of the person’s appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling.
Talking to an online date over the phone could be one of the online dating tips for a woman that is necessary. This is one way to get to know the personal better.
The good thing about online dating is that you are not pressured to meet anyone. And you can later choose whether to pursue the relationship in the offline world after getting to know the person well.
One important online dating tips for a woman is to watch for any of the following behavior without providing an acceptable explanation:- Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc.- Refuses to speak to you on the phone after establishing ongoing, online intimacy. - Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions. - Appears significantly different in person from his or her online persona. - Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members.
One of the online dating tips for a woman is to meet in a safe place. Always tell a friend where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date’s name and telephone number with your friend.
How To Write An EFFECTIVE Dating Profile
If you have made the decision to join a dating site in an attempt to find a potential match then you are probably already committed to becoming involved in a relationship.
You have probably spent a great deal of time researching dating sites and deciding which one is right for you to join. Once you have decided to register with a dating site, the next step is to write and submit your profile to the site. This is very important because a well written profile will enhance your chances of making a connection.
If you put care and effort into writing your profile you are more likely to receive a high volume of positive responses then you would if you just threw together a profile without much thought. Your dating site profile should be honest, well written, informative and eye catching. This type of profile will ensure that you get noticed on the dating site and that your profile stands out from all the others.
Before beginning to work on your own dating site profile, take a little time to view some of the profiles already posted. In reviewing these profiles take note of what seems to really stand out to you. If you are impressed with a profile, examine it closely and determine why you find the profile so intriguing and try to convey this same form of intrigue in your own profile without copying anything directly.
Trying to incorporate methods that you found interesting in the profiles of other members will result in your profile generating interest as well. Also, if the dating site you have joined has a rating system for profiles or a log of how many times a profile has been viewed give careful consideration to profiles that are viewed frequently or have high ratings.
Understanding what makes these profiles so popular will help you to write an eye catching profile for yourself. The first step to writing a successful dating site profile is to research the existing profiles of other members and figure out what works and does not work about them.
Once you have done your initial research of other profiles, it’s time to begin working on your own profile. Most dating sites offer a template for providing your profile. Before you are ready to start entering information, print out the template so that you can work on your profile away from your computer and give careful thought to your answers. Once you have created a rough draft of your profile, put it aside for a day or two and then take a look at it again and make sure everything still makes sense and that your profiles conveys the intended message.
You can even take the opportunity to have a friend review your profile before you post it to the dating site. While you may be in a hurry to get your information posted, the extra time you spend preparing your profile will make your profile appear more polished than most.
Honesty is crucial to writing a successful dating site profile. You may be tempted to write a profile that is bound to attract attention but that is not exactly true but this really won’t help you to find a suitable match. Your false profile may lead to many responses but you are not likely to receive responses from those who share your interests. If you really want to attract responses from those who enjoy the same activities as you then it is important to write an accurate profile of yourself.
For example it may impress those reading your profile to hear of your love of the theater, fine dining and the arts but if you are really a person who enjoys hiking and then enjoying a burger at a local diner with posters of Elvis Presley on the wall then you are not likely to find a suitable match by touting your love of the finer things in life.
Posting a picture is also very important to writing a successful dating site profile. While you may be self conscious about your appearance and hesitant to include a picture, neglecting to post one will lead people to assume the worst about your appearance. It will also make your profile not stand out as well as it would if you include a picture.
Having a face to associate with the profile makes it more memorable and likely to receive a response. Choose a picture that is an accurate representation of your looks and conveys a sense of who you really are. If you are into glamour and appearance by all means use a photo of yourself where you are looking your most glamorous. There is nothing wrong with that as long as it reflects your true personality.
However, if you are more of an outdoorsy and simple type choose a picture that shows your natural beauty. Don’t hesitate to include a picture with your dating site profile because profiles that do not include a photo are easily overlooked.
You can write a truly successful dating site profile. The keys to doing so are to research other successful profiles, put careful thought into writing your profile, answer questions honestly in your profile and include a picture. All of these tips will ensure that your profile stands out from the others on the dating site and that elicits the response you are looking for to your profile.
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