True Love On Demand Letter

Ah, romance, that wonderful and exciting feeling, that most glorious intertwining of two hearts. So intense, such a high, but so fleeting, and so often for so many once gone never to return. But does it have to be that way?

Can we intentionally create and sustain more romance in our lives?

Most folks profess to want more romance in their lives. Indeed, for some, romance is a goal unto itself, or at least high on the list of goals for their love relationships.

But if having romance in our committed love relationships is a highly prized goal, and if so many people want more of it in their lives, how can we create, cultivate, and encourage it? What concrete steps can we take to make sure that romance takes seed and flourishes?

We are here to explore the idea that romance begins in your heart-center and grows outward, and is, to some significant degree, a reflection of how you feel about yourself. In other words, by romancing yourself first you can create the conditions that allow you to experience and express romance with another more easily.

Listen: your capacity to love and accept yourself is the measure of your capacity to love and accept others. The same can be said for romance: your ability and willingness to create romance within is the measure of the romance you can help create in a committed loving relationship.

True romance isn’t just about flowers and poems. Flowers and poems are great, of course, but are really just an extension of a feeling that comes from within, something that starts in, and flows from, the heart.

Without that heart-felt feeling, flowers and poems are but an attempt be to romantic, not an expression of true romance.

So how do you create more romance in your life? Begin by romancing yourself. Love, accept, and forgive yourself on a deep level. Treat yourself with respect and understanding.

Buy yourself flowers. Write yourself a poem. Treat yourself with respect and dignity. And remember: if you don’t love yourself first, you can’t truly love another.

And remember that it is far more important to be the right person than to find the right person. Our relationships are a reflection of the relationship we have with ourselves. Romance, too, is a reflection of that inner state. By first creating romance within, you’ll be well on your way to creating more romance in your life.

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Labels: find love, friend to lover, how to be romantic, romance

The couple was walking on the sidewalk. They looked to be totally absorbed with each other.

They were not speaking to each other, but a glance at them could tell that they were in deep love and were made for each other. What is this mystical quality of being made for each other?

What qualities does this kind of relationship have? Are both of them really deep in love with each other? Are all the choices same? Or as we say in science, opposites attract.

So the choices are totally different? Will a couple having different choices in every aspect love each other or fight over the choices? We can say that at least most of the choices should be very common.

If I say that my partner and I are made for each other, what I must mean is this, that he or she is the right person for me.

There is no other person in the world other than him (her) who can make a better couple with me. We are happiest being together and our happiness comes from our relationship.

Are choices the only factor that matter in our life? Is it enough if my eating habits, my dressing choices, my color preferences, my weather preferences and all my other likings are same as my partner, we are made for each other?

Is that all to the relationship supposed to be made for each other? There must be something more?

What can be that?

Let us find out.

Love for each other, a deep longing for others body, heart and words and a feeling of deep satisfaction that is derived when the couple is together. The couple has only one desire, to share everything, every thought, and every emotion.

The main goal in life - make and keep the partner happy and feel happy in his (her) happiness. Whenever we look at a mother with her child, we never say that they are made for each other, but they share a bond that is very deep. If a couple can somehow share that kind of bond, it can be called 'made for each other.'

Here is how you can romance your lover for life!

1) ATTITUDE

Get an attitude adjustment first. Lighten up and do a 180-degree about face. Read the Sunday comics, grab an old comic book, turn on the Comedy channel, watch funny videos or DVDs. Get in a better mood and pass it along to your mate. Invite your mate to tune in to comedy with you, too.

2) FRIENDSHIP

Go back to being friends for starters now that you’re in a good mood. Forget the love stuff, if you want. And just focus on being good friends; share compliments, do things for one another, go out and have fun together, enjoy one another’s company.

3) RELAX

Let your hair down. Trust and relax. Be yourself. Don’t let old wounds open or fester. Forget the garbage memories and just be in the here and now together.

4) TIME OUT

If possible, spend extra time together for awhile, like during your original courting days. Hire a sitter, order out, eat at fast food places, grab ice cream cones and go for walks in the park. Get to know each other all over again. That’s the key. Then you’ll remember why you fell for each other in the beginning and history will hopefully repeat itself.

5) COMMUNICATION

Take it slow and easy. Keep away from subjects that you do not agree upon. And slowly re-learn to communicate with each other all over again. If necessary, and it is not a crime or shame, get help. Seek a trusted friend or adviser, a church clergy member or certified professional counselor. No need to go it alone. Find your weak areas and how to over come them and plan for future communication difficulties.

6) GOALS

Gradually develop goals together so you’ll have a direction to head. Write them down in a notebook just for the two of you. And over time, develop them, revise them, cross them off your list. The idea is to HAVE goals together and work towards a common goal.

7) SCRAP BOOK

Create a memory album together. Add photos, clippings, menus and anything that reminds you of the “good times.” Then when tough times comes, you’ll have something to “hold on to”, your bridge to romance.

So don’t just sit back and sulk.

Take short steps to improve your relationships and let life’s problems magically pass by while you hold on to your relationship.

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Labels: friend to lover, love advice, romance advice, what is love

Relationship are about more than sex and romance - a good relationship also requires a degree of genuine respect and compatibility - you need to be friends.

So it stands to reason that a wonderful relationship could blossom with a man who is already your friend.

After all, you already have shared memories, have talked about your feelings both happy and sad, like the same sorts of food and movies, and have a similar sense of humor. Everything, in fact, that you could possibly want in a lover.

Most men will tell you that if you want to shift a relationship from being "just friends" to lovers, all you have to do is ask. But that is not really true.

If you have been friends with a man for a long time, he is probably stopped thinking of you as potential lover long before now - even if he had hopes for more when you first became friends.

But do not give up hope - there are things you can do to make your friend into a lover:

1. Remind him that you are an attractive woman.

He is probably told you over the years what he likes best about you - and you probably know him well enough to know what he finds appealing in the women he dates. So now it is time to highlight those features in yourself and make sure he notices that you're a flesh-and-blood, dateable woman.

You do not need to go overboard and change major things about yourself - but as friends, you have been comfortable knowing that head like you no matter how you dressed, without makeup, and even when your hair was a mess.

If you want to take this relationship to another level, however, you will need to step up your game.

2. Stop treating him like a girlfriend.

You talk to you friends about everything, don't you? You gossip, complain, discuss disgusting bodily functions and talk about the other people you find attractive. It is fun, but the first step to turning him from a friend into a lover is to start treating him less like a gal-pal and more like a man you would like to date!

Flirt a little with him, in a light, humorous way, and see how he responds. Even if the flirting seems to go over his head, on some level he will take note and start thinking about you differently himself.

3. Set the stage for romance.

Spice up your "just friends" outing by skipping Starbucks and heading out to the park for a picnic instead. Or ask him to join you for dinner at restaurant that just happens to have dim lighting and a romantic ambience. Getting him in dating frame of mind is as much about the setting as the way you talk to him.

4. Have a sexy attitude.

Let's face it - if he is your friend, he is probably seen you show interest in other men, and he has grown accustomed to be treated in a purely platonic fashion. Stop thinking of him as a pal and look at him with fresh eyes - how would you respond to him if he was someone you just met and found attractive?

When you change your attitude, you will also be changing hundreds of little things about the way you relate to him, from the look in your eyes to the way you use your voice. Again, he may not pick up on it consciously at first, but hell definitely get the message.

5. Use your body to send a message. Our body language is an ancient and powerful tool for attracting mates - use it to your advantage! Lean a little closer to him when he talks to you, sit a bit closer on the couch.

Here is a useful tip. One way of sending a subconscious signal that we like someone is to "mirror" their actions - taking sips from drinks at the same time, crossing our legs the same way.

Try it, and see what happens. And don't forget to use touch. Place a hand lightly on his forearm when he tells you a joke, brush a strand of hair out of his eyes, smooth a wrinkle out of his shirt.
He will notice the change!

Most men complain about being put in the "just friends" category by the women they know. So, who knows?

He may already have feelings for you, but never believed that you would be interested in being anything more. With a little thought, a change in attitude and a lot of body language, your friend will become your lover before you know it.

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"How to Save Your Marriage and Stops ALL the Cheating! (FREE Videos, reports and templates for YOU (Value >$297!!!)"

"Get Your TRUE LOVE on Demand! Finding your love should be effortless if you use the lessons we are revealing in HERE! Restricted materials!"

"Is your lover the one for you? Find out using our breakthrough materials HERE!"

"How to Win A Lover Back! (Get your FREE Video tutorial valued more than US$67, helps one of my male reader gets his girl back!"

"Know What Men Want From You! (Get inside your boyfriends or husband's mind and know instantly what they want in their relationship and life today!)"

"How to Attract Women! (Know how to push BOTH her emotional and physical HOT buttons and GROW her love for you instantly. RARE knowledge!!!)"

"Attract A True Love Secrets! (Use the strategies HERE if all you want is to find, attract and KEEP your Mr or Mrs Right!!!)"

Labels: compatibility, friend to lover, relationship advice, romance