Saturday, March 27, 2010
How to know if my boyfriend (girlfriend) really loves me?
The couple was walking on the sidewalk. They looked to be totally absorbed with each other.
They were not speaking to each other, but a glance at them could tell that they were in deep love and were made for each other. What is this mystical quality of being made for each other?
What qualities does this kind of relationship have? Are both of them really deep in love with each other? Are all the choices same? Or as we say in science, opposites attract.
So the choices are totally different? Will a couple having different choices in every aspect love each other or fight over the choices? We can say that at least most of the choices should be very common.
If I say that my partner and I are made for each other, what I must mean is this, that he or she is the right person for me.
There is no other person in the world other than him (her) who can make a better couple with me. We are happiest being together and our happiness comes from our relationship.
Are choices the only factor that matter in our life? Is it enough if my eating habits, my dressing choices, my color preferences, my weather preferences and all my other likings are same as my partner, we are made for each other?
Is that all to the relationship supposed to be made for each other? There must be something more?
What can be that?
Let us find out.
Love for each other, a deep longing for others body, heart and words and a feeling of deep satisfaction that is derived when the couple is together. The couple has only one desire, to share everything, every thought, and every emotion.
The main goal in life - make and keep the partner happy and feel happy in his (her) happiness. Whenever we look at a mother with her child, we never say that they are made for each other, but they share a bond that is very deep. If a couple can somehow share that kind of bond, it can be called 'made for each other.'
Here is how you can romance your lover for life!
Get an attitude adjustment first. Lighten up and do a 180-degree about face. Read the Sunday comics, grab an old comic book, turn on the Comedy channel, watch funny videos or DVDs. Get in a better mood and pass it along to your mate. Invite your mate to tune in to comedy with you, too.
Go back to being friends for starters now that you’re in a good mood. Forget the love stuff, if you want. And just focus on being good friends; share compliments, do things for one another, go out and have fun together, enjoy one another’s company.
Let your hair down. Trust and relax. Be yourself. Don’t let old wounds open or fester. Forget the garbage memories and just be in the here and now together.
4) TIME OUT
If possible, spend extra time together for awhile, like during your original courting days. Hire a sitter, order out, eat at fast food places, grab ice cream cones and go for walks in the park. Get to know each other all over again. That’s the key. Then you’ll remember why you fell for each other in the beginning and history will hopefully repeat itself.
Take it slow and easy. Keep away from subjects that you do not agree upon. And slowly re-learn to communicate with each other all over again. If necessary, and it is not a crime or shame, get help. Seek a trusted friend or adviser, a church clergy member or certified professional counselor. No need to go it alone. Find your weak areas and how to over come them and plan for future communication difficulties.
Gradually develop goals together so you’ll have a direction to head. Write them down in a notebook just for the two of you. And over time, develop them, revise them, cross them off your list. The idea is to HAVE goals together and work towards a common goal.
7) SCRAP BOOK
Create a memory album together. Add photos, clippings, menus and anything that reminds you of the “good times.” Then when tough times comes, you’ll have something to “hold on to”, your bridge to romance.
So don’t just sit back and sulk.
Take short steps to improve your relationships and let life’s problems magically pass by while you hold on to your relationship.
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