Sunday, September 06, 2009

 

When a lover leaves: how do I overcome the pain of separation?


Have you loved and had the devastating experience of your beloved leaving you? Have you felt the pain? Does any other pain come nearer to it?

Yes, the pain of losing someone by death may come near to that. But even that is not comparable. By death, you lose your sweetheart forever and know that she/he is no longer in this world. But if they leave you, you experience the shock that is unsurpassed.

You know that your beloved is in this world itself, but you have no strength to find out where? You have no strength to meet and find out the reason for the betrayal. You get so numbed with the shock, that you can take no more pain. So you are left to live with that pain yourself. And that life is nothing but death at every moment.

When I cry for my beloved, the tears that I shed are more precious than heavenly pearls, says the poet in me. Yes, one cries, and one finds no one to share that cry. If you talk to people around you about the break down you are facing, they will probably call you a fool for grieving.

After sometime, you stop talking to anyone about your pain. That keeps the pain inside you. That kills you slowly, but surely.

Can one overcome this? Very difficult.

The very fact that you fell in love that submerged you tells about your personality. Such personalities that give themselves totally away, find it very difficult to bear the loss of love. Snatch a child away from the mother and measure the pain of the mother, you will find out what I am talking about.

Why does the mother grieve so much? Because she carried the child in her womb for nine months, she cared for the child after birth, she kept awake for her child for endless nights and she dreamt for her child at all the times. The child was an extension of her own personality. The loss therefore becomes unbearable.

In the same way, those who love deeply, love their beloved like their own child. They care for the beloved like their own extension. Their love and their beloved become an essential part of their personality.

Therefore, when that love walks out, the grief is immense and the loss immeasurable. What is to be done?

No one can say about this. It all depends on the personality.If that person can somehow continue working towards a useful goal, while keeping the pain all the time inside the heart, life can be carried on for sometime. But ultimately that pain of separation will engulf the person.

I talk with many women who don't understand what brought their relationships to the point of needing therapy.

After all, 'they don't ever argue with their husbands'. Well, of course that sends a huge, waving, red flag up. If you NEVER disagree, you probably aren't being honest or worse - not saying anything.

Relationship silence.

It's a poison for you and your partner because usually when you've reached the point of silence - or shutting down - and just not wanting to deal with your partner on any type of meaningful communicative way...you're in big trouble and could be headed for a break-up or separation.

You know that your relationship is suffering from silence when you haven't debated with your partner about anything in the past few months - in fact, you haven't had an interesting conversation about anything that is important to either of you in the past few months or weeks.

You have disconnected. And either you or he initiated the silence in an effort to stop having to deal with judgments, criticisms, and other negative conversation killers.

When there is healthy debate or even heated arguing in a relationship, that means that both people are trying to get their voices heard. They are trying to get their points across.

They are trying convince their partners of something or convince themselves. Any way you slice it - opinions are out on the table and both of you know where the other stands. With silence, no one knows where the other stands. There is a lot of guessing and assuming, because no one is being heard. And we all know where that can lead.

Relationship silence is easy to cure. Just start talking. The biggest hurdle is for someone to take the first step. The second is to begin to understand why you both shut down to begin with.

What was the last big argument you had? And what was said? And if the silence has gotten beyond the point of anyone taking that first leap of faith - you may need an impartial person such as a mediator, religious leader, or therapist to help you through it.

Quick Tip: If you are afraid to talk to your partner because of what his reaction may be - ask yourself "what am I afraid of?" What would the worst case scenario be if I demanded to be heard? Do I trust my partner not to judge me, berate me, or leave me if I speak up?

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Friday, August 14, 2009

 

Life after divorce: living your life with ease

Going through a divorce is a very challenging time in a person’s life. It is hard to adjust to being single again, as well as living “out of the habit” of being married, especially if you have been married for many, many years.

Eventually, you begin to think about dating, but it is suggested that you take your time. Use this precious opportunity to rediscover yourself.

Think of this time in your life as an adventure to explore the real you. If you have worked outside the home combined with being a mom and wife for the last ten, fifteen or twenty years, you may have lost yourself along the way.

Certainly not on purpose, but as most women try to do it all as “super” moms, many times we put our own wants and needs on hold to keep our families and jobs running smoothly!

Take a deep breath and let’s start to rediscover our true passions and say…Will the Real Me Please Stand Up!

1. Treasure Your Gifts Within

Realizing we are all born as “gold nuggets” is a hard concept for many women to believe about themselves. Think about how magnificent you really are!

Over time, you might have forgotten your unique gifts and are only thinking of what you don’t like about yourself or your life. Set a new intention, starting today, to list all of your great qualities and read that list everyday. Keep reading it until you believe it.

Examples: beautiful smile, kindness, generosity, loving, caring, intelligent… keep going. Your list is endless, when you start focusing on your great qualities. Allow yourself to see the shining gold within. It’s already there!

2. Give Yourself A Break

During and after a divorce it is common to have the feeling of grieving, similar to that of the loss of someone. Many women feel the need to stay busy to keep their minds off of this stressful time, such as working overtime or cleaning the house from top to bottom, but let this time also include pampering yourself.

Barter with a friend or neighbor to watch your children or leave work a few minutes early so you can stop to sit on a park bench long enough to get that sense of the unique and special YOU.

Take this time to experience life even for only 10 minutes without feeling like a wife, mother, sister or daughter… simply you!

Yes, you do deserve to do something special for yourself. It can be as simple as taking a bath or a walk, going to the mall or reading a book with your favorite cup of tea. Give yourself permission - it’s O.K. Remember, the happier you are, the happier your family will be!

3. No regrets! No bitterness!

Holding onto regrets and bitterness will only keep your life from moving forward. Is your inner voice working overtime with all the “what ifs” and “if onlys”?

This is normal for a period of time, but ask yourself…are these thoughts serving me or helping me feel better? Will thinking about them over and over again change anything?

To move your life forward, it is important to acknowledge your feelings and to learn from your past experiences to prepare yourself for the next exciting chapter of your life. Yes, there is life after divorce. Learn to let it go! Just, let it go!

A quote from Buddy Hackett, “I never hold a grudge because while I am being angry, the other person is out dancing.”

4. Enjoy the Little Things

Life after divorce usually means added responsibilities. If you are a single parent or are now the one responsible for the once shared to-do list, how do you handle it all without being totally stressed out?

To start, learn to laugh more, especially at yourself. Learn to let things go and not take life so seriously.

Lighten-up!

Learn to live in the present moment. Living in the present is where all the “good stuff” in life happens. Yesterday’s worries are gone forever and tomorrow’s to-do list can wait. Think of it this way, when one is missing this moment in time, one is missing out on one’s life.

So how do we live in the present?

If you are feeling stressed, immediately leave your thoughts in your head and take off your blinders. (Blinders similar to what a horse would wear, not allowing it to see from side to side).

Start to look around you. I mean really look around you. Look closely at everything. Really focus. Use all your senses! For example, if you are with your children observe them.

Cherish their smiles. Give them a hug. See the true beauty of who they are and appreciate them for being a part of your life. You will start to feel your stress subside and a feeling of peace sweep over you.

To be present, no matter where you are, use all your senses to pull you back into the moment. Take time to appreciate all the beauty that already exists around you. You only have to be present to see it!

5. What Makes Your Heart Sing?

What really matters to you? What do you feel is your true purpose in life? If someone asked you that question, how would you answer them?

Why is it so important to be clear on what your life’s purpose is? Knowing your purpose, will give you a true sense of who you are and why you were put on this earth. It gives your life direction and helps you make clear and easy decisions concerning that direction.

It’s your compass! Without a purpose, can your life be compared to a piece of driftwood; Floating endlessly in whichever direction the tide decides to take it and ending up on any beach with no will of its’ own?

When you live your life based on your purpose you are living in integrity with yourself and are in alignment of who you really are in all aspects of your life - body, mind and spirit. Take this time to focus on what really matters to you. Feel the true passions that exist in your heart and write them down.

6. What Are Your Vibes Saying About You?

Are you familiar with the Law of Attraction? Maybe you have heard the expressions, “What you think about, you bring about” or “The more attention you give to something, the more attention it will give to you.”

When going through a divorce, your emotions can be compared to a roller coaster ride. Use this time to become reconnected to your inner awareness of who you are.

Learn to sit still and quiet until you understand what emotions you are feeling. Realize that your feelings and sensations are okay, then learn to listen to what your mind and body are telling you.

Here is a great tip…recognize if your feelings are low energy or high energy.

A few examples of low energy are stress, negativity, fear, resentment, or a sense of lack (lack of time or money) and high energy is joy, abundance, happy, positive, love or compassion. If you are having feelings of low energy, how do you make a shift to feel more of the high energy?

First, acknowledge and accept the feelings you are having. Be gentle with yourself! Your goal is to make a shift, but realize you might not be able to go from low to high instantly.

Start with baby steps! Repeat step number one and become present! Be thankful for what is working in your life right now. Do something simple like pat your pet, smell a flower or, if you are in the office, take a minute to think of a previous fun time or experience you have had that could bring a smile to your face.

Feel the shift you are starting to make in your energy.

Now, to amp up this high energy feeling, think of another time of joy or something you were passionate about in your life. Keep adding these thoughts to your high energy feeling and begin to feel great!

Does it seem the people or situations around you have changed or is it you who has really changed? So, who has the power to feel their own joy? When you are feeling your high energy, this is the time to take your next inspired action and enjoy the feeling of accomplishing something with ease and less effort!

7. Be True To Yourself

During and even after a divorce, we are often filled with doubts. We question ourselves about what is right, what to do or how we feel. Should I or shouldn’t I? It seems difficult to make a decision.

Listen to your heart. What feels right? What doesn’t feel quite right? If a situation does not feel right, honor your resistance by pausing or waiting. Sometimes waiting is the best thing to do. By waiting you may have allowed the situation to unfold more easily without having to worry!

If a decision feels good or right, usually that means you are heading in the right direction. When we listen to our hearts, we are in integrity with ourselves. When we are in integrity with ourselves, we learn to say NO more easily.

Has this ever happened to you? You are asked to be on a committee or to volunteer for something and you say yes, even though you know it will make your schedule even tighter or you really don’t want to or have to?

How do you stop this from happening? Next time you are in this situation and you are ready to say yes, yet, find yourself having doubts, try this … STOP! Take a breath or even take a step back (this action will prevent you from saying yes).

Pause!

Thank the person for thinking of you, but let them know you will have to check your calendar and get back to them. When you do have time to think about it, focus on how you are feeling. Are you excited to volunteer or do you feel some resistance? If in a day or two you are still feeling doubtful, realize the timing might not be right for you. If you are still excited, join the committee and have fun!

Divorce is not easy or fun and you can make it through this time of your life by realizing you WILL make it!

Also, honor yourself and listen to your heart! Your true purpose and passions are waiting to be rediscovered within you! When you have discovered the “gold nugget” you already are, you will start to live your life with more ease and enjoy the feeling of peace. “You are truly free!”

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Attracting Girls: What you must not tell your girlfriend


To be in loved with a girl and start a relationship is a wonderful thing. Long term relationships are usually based on love, trust and honesty.

Even if honesty is very important in a relationship, sometimes may be hurtful. There are some things that can't be told to the partner because it may hurt her, or make her change the opinion about you.

For example, some bad things you've done in the past, a truth about her that will make her feel bad if you tell her, and so on.

Even if you love her very much and you are getting pretty close, these things that can affect your relationship should be kept in secret. Sometimes you can best show her your love by keeping your mouth shout.

So, before you start to be too confident and directly with her, you should take a look at these things that may destroy your relationship.
1. Never tell her she is getting fat

Even if this is true, you can't tell her this. It will make her feel very bad, and will think that you don't like her anymore. Think about how she would feel if you go there and say: '' honey, you could stand to lose a little weight ''.

Let her decide when is the time to lose weight because she will do it without you hurting her. In most of the cases when a man told her girlfriend that she got fat, he gets dumped.
2. Don't tell her how your mother would have done things

I know that for men their mothers always represent a model in life, but we have to admit that all the families are different. So, we have been raised by different kinds of parents and in different ways of life.

Everyone is taught to do things in their ways and that's why you can't ask your girlfriend to do things or to live like your mother. A woman can have her views and opinions, and all you can do about this is to tell her stories about how you were raised and how things have been done in your family. You should adapt at this new way of life, without comparing her with your mom.
3. Don't tell her that you like to visit your mom too often

Maybe in that moment you love your mother more that her, but you don't have to show it. She may think that she is competing with your mom, or worst, that you are depending on mommy. It is not at all in your favor.
4. Don't criticize her when she is trying to do her best

This is the worst thing you can do. If she sees that she is trying hard to do the things fine and you begin criticize her, she would feel disappointed that you don't know to appreciate her for the fact that she is trying her best. So you should get over it, and offer you to help her in doing that job. Maybe next time she'll be doing better.
5. Never tell her if your family doesn't like her

Even if your family dislike her, it is better to not tell her because she will get angry and insecure. This will create future problems and tension between her and your family.

All you can do is to let your family know that she is the one you have chosen and they have to respect your decision. Try to make them change their minds about her.
6. Don't remind her about your ex in a special moment

Never ever compare your dating nights or things you do together with the ones you have done with your ex. It might happen to go with her in places where you have been with the other, but don't remind her that. It is a hurtful thing for her to see that you are still thinking about the other.

Also, never compare her to your ex in bed. She will feel bad to find out that the other was better than she in bed. No woman likes to be compared to another, in any aspect.

7. Don't recognize if you have done bad things in your past

If she doesn't find out already, you better keep your mouth shout; it is in your favor. If you tell her that you have cheated your past girlfriends, for example, she will have a totally bad opinion about you, and also fell disappointed. So these things you shouldn't divulge.

8. Never tell her that a football game is more important for you than her

Even if is an important game, don't tell her to let you alone in that moment because you are busy and don't have time for her. You better smile and pretend that you are listening to her too, and try to catch the key words. She might ask you what she was talking to you to test you.
9. Don't tell her that you hate her friends

Because she knows her friends for a long time that she knows you, it is not a good idea to tell her that she doesn't like her friends, or to say something bad about them. She may get angry about this, so you better pretend that you like them and everything is ok.

10. Don't ask her to relax when she is very angry

When she is very upset, scared, or very angry the worst thing you can do is to ask her to relax. This will make her angrier because she will think that you don't take her in serious. If you upset her by making some bad things, if you just say her to relax she will understand that you are denying that there is a reason to be upset.

11. Don't tell her that you are insecure

In a relationship or dating woman is looking after a strong and confident man. So if you are insecure, or you are jealous on her because, for example, she has a better salary than yours, you have to keep this aspect just for yourself. She doesn't have to know it if you want that things between you to go well.

12. Don't declare your love during a fight

The words ‘‘I love you ‘‘mean a lot for a woman that's why it should be said at the right moment. But most of guys say this during they have a fight with their partner, in the worst moment ever.

When you are mistaking in front of her, and let’s say that you feel guilty, you want her to forgive you, so you declare your love for her. It is a wrong choice. She doesn't believe a word in what you say because she considers that if you really loved her you wouldn't upset her. You may say you love her but only after your fight is over.

13. Do not tell her that you like her girlfriend

Maybe one of her girlfriends is very beautiful and you would like to meet her first, but your actual partner shouldn't find this.

If you say her that her best friends looks very good, she will feel hurt, angry and will never trust you around her friends. So keep it secret and make sure to not be obvious from your attitude that you like staring at her girlfriend sometimes.

If you want to have a long and strong relationship you shouldn’t permit that some things you may say to destroy it. Don't be completely honest about the things which should not be told.

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Saturday, August 01, 2009

 

More Than a Friend: How to Turn Your Guy Friend Into a Committed Lover in 5 Easy Steps!


Relationship are about more than sex and romance - a good relationship also requires a degree of genuine respect and compatibility - you need to be friends.

So it stands to reason that a wonderful relationship could blossom with a man who is already your friend.

After all, you already have shared memories, have talked about your feelings both happy and sad, like the same sorts of food and movies, and have a similar sense of humor. Everything, in fact, that you could possibly want in a lover.

Most men will tell you that if you want to shift a relationship from being "just friends" to lovers, all you have to do is ask. But that is not really true.

If you have been friends with a man for a long time, he is probably stopped thinking of you as potential lover long before now - even if he had hopes for more when you first became friends.

But do not give up hope - there are things you can do to make your friend into a lover:

1. Remind him that you are an attractive woman.

He is probably told you over the years what he likes best about you - and you probably know him well enough to know what he finds appealing in the women he dates. So now it is time to highlight those features in yourself and make sure he notices that you're a flesh-and-blood, dateable woman.

You do not need to go overboard and change major things about yourself - but as friends, you have been comfortable knowing that head like you no matter how you dressed, without makeup, and even when your hair was a mess.

If you want to take this relationship to another level, however, you will need to step up your game.

2. Stop treating him like a girlfriend.

You talk to you friends about everything, don't you? You gossip, complain, discuss disgusting bodily functions and talk about the other people you find attractive. It is fun, but the first step to turning him from a friend into a lover is to start treating him less like a gal-pal and more like a man you would like to date!

Flirt a little with him, in a light, humorous way, and see how he responds. Even if the flirting seems to go over his head, on some level he will take note and start thinking about you differently himself.

3. Set the stage for romance.

Spice up your "just friends" outing by skipping Starbucks and heading out to the park for a picnic instead. Or ask him to join you for dinner at restaurant that just happens to have dim lighting and a romantic ambience. Getting him in dating frame of mind is as much about the setting as the way you talk to him.

4. Have a sexy attitude.

Let's face it - if he is your friend, he is probably seen you show interest in other men, and he has grown accustomed to be treated in a purely platonic fashion. Stop thinking of him as a pal and look at him with fresh eyes - how would you respond to him if he was someone you just met and found attractive?

When you change your attitude, you will also be changing hundreds of little things about the way you relate to him, from the look in your eyes to the way you use your voice. Again, he may not pick up on it consciously at first, but hell definitely get the message.

5. Use your body to send a message. Our body language is an ancient and powerful tool for attracting mates - use it to your advantage! Lean a little closer to him when he talks to you, sit a bit closer on the couch.

Here is a useful tip. One way of sending a subconscious signal that we like someone is to "mirror" their actions - taking sips from drinks at the same time, crossing our legs the same way.

Try it, and see what happens. And don't forget to use touch. Place a hand lightly on his forearm when he tells you a joke, brush a strand of hair out of his eyes, smooth a wrinkle out of his shirt.
He will notice the change!

Most men complain about being put in the "just friends" category by the women they know. So, who knows?

He may already have feelings for you, but never believed that you would be interested in being anything more. With a little thought, a change in attitude and a lot of body language, your friend will become your lover before you know it.

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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

 

CREATING THE LOVE OF MY DREAMS




Hi Everyone,

I got a great letter from one of my Readers about
How to Draw in Your Ultimate Soulmate
I thought it would be fun to answer it her
on the True Love On Demand Blog

Here is the Letter

Hi Robby,

I will be grateful if you could explain and give examples of how the ego, on a daily basis, and how it relates to and is different to:
- Our emotions (On fear, joy, etc)
- Our feelings (how I feel about things)
- The subconscious mind
- The conscious mind
and how to attempt to detach emotionally from my ego?
you could explain it in context of 'creating the love of my dreams'. Thank you.
Warmest blessings,
Kerry (London, UK)

HERE IS MY RESPONSE

Hi Kerry,

Great Question.

Its Really Important to Lose Your Ego when Drawing
In Your Highest & Best Divine Design Ultimate Soulmate.

Example of Source Feelings are Joy, Bliss, Peace, Abundance,
Source means Universal Divine Matrix or the Quantum Field

When You are in Source You are in Vibrational Alignment
with This Field.

Source Feelings are Rooted in Love, Desire & Abundance.

Emotions are Different. Emotions are Fear Based so when
You Root Your Existance & Life in Competition, Scarcity,
Fear and Fighting for What you Want you will usually be
Reactive and Vibe in Negative Emotions.

The Ego is Our Programming & Judgemental Consciousness.

Ideally one needs to Seperate From the Ego. If you have
Read the Power of Now by Echart Tolle, you will understand
how to seperate from the Ego.

I eventually learned how to put my Logical Bean Counting
Analytical Judgmental Ego in the Corner and Live From
My Observer Consciousness.

This is the Place to Manifest Your Highest & Best Ultimate
Soulmate because when you are in The Now transcendent
from Time & Space with Source Emotions You can Place
Your Intention & Attention on Your Desire and from
Space & Place of Surrender & Detachment
Let Go Your Hearts Dream of True Love.

If you want more info on How to Manifest Your
Highest & Best Ultimate Soulmate
email me at relationshipcentre@shaw.ca
and Get a Hold True Love on Demand at
www.trueloveondemand.com

Warm Regards

Dr. Robby
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Monday, February 23, 2009

 

Surviving Infidelity - Become Your Own Marriage and Relationship Counselor!













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Tuesday, October 21, 2008

 

HOW TO DRAW IN YOUR TRUE LOVE




Hi Everyone,

People ask me all the time, How Did I Draw in the Love of My Life in less than 48 hours.

Well I can tell you right off the bat I was thinking that it would take 1 to 2 Years at least
so because of not having a rigid date or time line I was "Centered & In the Now"

As well I was open to not finding My Ultimate Mate yet at the same moment was
committed to finding to the Essence of My Desire in a Form that I was
jazzed about & they were jazzed about me.

This was a Powerful Paradox that when linked with asking for My Divine Design
brought to me a Love & Relationship Beyond My Wildest Dreams.

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the program priority notification at www.counsellorinabox.com

As well I have my own personal site at www.drrobbyonline.com for those
of you interested in what else we offer.

I spend time teaching students how to Manifest their Dream Life in our Phase 1 to 3
programs. So check that out if you are energized to do that.

till next time

Create the Life & Relationships of Your Dreams

Warm Regards,

Dr. Robby

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Friday, September 05, 2008

 

Secrets of Know Who & What is Best For You


THE PATHWAY OF ENERGY COMFORT & UPLIFTMENT

The “Secrets” of Knowing What is Highest & Best for You & How to Magically Follow The Pathway Of Your Ultimate Purpose & Destiny

The biggest confusion for people is around recognizing what is Highest & Best for them when making a choice.

As well people wonder & yearn for their Ultimate Purpose & Destiny & wish that they could get a Clear Acknowledgment of that Path, Direction & Destination.

Divine Design is indicated by Resonate Vibration

You Ultimate Destiny & Life Purpose Unfolds Gracefully as You Become Aware & Conscious of it for Your Body & Emotional Feelings Act as a Trusted Guide.

You can FEEL Resonate Vibration because it is Energizing & Feels Natural, Normal & Comfortable,

Its feels Peaceful & Light

The Best Way I can “Describe It”, is that it is a “Sense & Feeling of Upliftment.”

Another way to describe it is that is a Feeling Sense of being almost physically lifted and or buoyant.

Its seems to rise you up easily & gently like floating & or like the Wind Beneath Your Wings.

It happens in a moment & is sustained forever as you interact with what ever is Highest & Best for You at any given time.

You Feel Lighter & a sense of Connection to Everything. It’s a feeling of Being as One as You Come into Contact with anything that is Highest & Best For & or If You Start to Flow with Divinity along the Pathway of Your Life Purpose & Ultimate Destiny.

When I transisted into having everything in my Personal Enviroment be of Highest & Best Divine Design I really started to notice a difference in the Energy of what is Resonate Vibration or not.

People, Places & Things that were of Resonate Highest & Best Vibe would give me an Instant Feeling of Upliftment & Joy, which would be continuous & in fact the Energy, Joy & Love for it would Expand over Time.

This Upliftment Would be Energizing, Peaceful & Joyful.

The Upliftment Energizing Feeling is Not like a Jolt of Excitement nor does it have The Feeling of Struggle or Trying to Make Something Fit & or Work.

In fact it is Subtle most of the time, and I have passed over things & not noticed what is Highest & Best till I picked something that is not Highest & Best to give me a contrast.

This happens cause Highest & Best Does Not Hit You over the Head.

I used to not be that subtle, sensitive and or aware with sensory acuity type of guy and would need a “whack in the side of head” to get the point of something and or to figure something out.

The Soul Gently Urges.

It could be thru an “Inner Whisper” or a “Constant Back of the Head Vision” that Pops Up in the Quieter Moments.

It also could be a Kinesthetic Feeling State You are Moving too and or Conceptual Position & or Construct You are Trying to Reflect in Your Subjective Reality

GETTING CLEAR ON OUR HIGHEST & BEST LIFE PATH

As well, We all have an Ultimate Destiny Path we are gently being urged upon.

Life can stall or Block that Movement along that Higher Direction but its always there in the Background gently pushing us & urging us.

In fact the Greatest Challenge I have had in Creating My Dream Life is Being Distracted by ADL which are the “Activities of Daily Living.”

Until I developed a System to have a Disciplined Focus, I was overwhelmed by all the Choices & Contrasts we have in Our World as well as the all the Stuff that is important to life a normal life in our Society.

What I wanted to Create was fuzzy or non-existent until I got Connection with my Body & Emotional Feelings States which act a Clear Guides.

For Years it was Hit & Miss until I enlisted these signals & learn how to read them.

So Today, I do Know what person, place or thing is Highest & Best for me and or What is my best Direction & Destiny Life Purpose I now have Clarity & Divine Guidance at Every Turn.

Sometimes I ignore it or logic my way, away from it but soon I am brought back to what is Highest & Best when I strictly follow the Feeling Signals of Comfort, Energy & Upliftment.

As well Now, I see My Highest Destiny Pathway Unfolding clearly not, only in Myself, because of the Clear Body Signals of the Feelings of Comfort, Energy & Upliftment I also see it CLEARLY in those around me, be it, clients, student’s friends, relatives as well as people in the Public Eye.

When you engage On this Pathway & or Encounter some person, place or things that are Highest & Best for You, you Find that once You are Attuned to this Universal Feeling it is Unmistakable when its there.

The Joy, Peace, Energized Upliftment enlivens you & gives you a feeling of it all being worth will.

Melody has coined the term CUE as a reminder.
The C stands for Comfort
The U stands for Upliftment
The E stands for Energizing

I have added the letter Q to CUE & personally I call it Q-CUE
because of the Character Q on the Star Trek Series where Q who is Omnipotent Being that can Manifest Anything with the Snap of His Fingers and Q also stands for Quality of Life, which is the Goal of Our Dream Life to give us the Highest & Best Quality of Life.

When something is Highest & Best and or We are Consciously Moving Down Our Ultimate Destiny Pathway, both Heaven & Earth Move to Support us, many times in just the "Blink of an Eye."

If you have any further questions on these concepts feel free to discuss them with Your Coach or Myself.

Warm Regards,

Dr. Robby
Fall 2008
Relationshipcentre@shaw.ca
www.drrobbyonline.com
www.lifequestpublishing.com

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