Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Are you emotionally stupid & realationship dumb
I was sitting in my office the other day watching couples fight as per usual at the Centre.
My thought was if they had only learned as children how to negotiate for their needs instead of fight.
We have all been brainwashed in the Competitive Adversarial Paradigm to fight for our needs.
The use of Control Drama’s as well as all sorts of manipulations and charms are such a waste of everybody’s time and energy includign the counsellors.
It’s mostly “he said, she said” and can you fix my flawed partner kind of BS we hear in the counselling room. .
People are not taking responsibility for their life and relationship circumstances.
If your partner is flawed look in the mirror and see who drew in someone who was flawed.
Like attracts like.
The fact is thru the Law of Attraction we have brought into our lives the people and circumstances that we may complain about and rail against.
Allow and Accept even if you don’t like it vs using influence and control techniques.
We are trained in our society that we can fix or influence our partners. The reality is most of the time you cannot.
In my book True Love on Demand. I teach people how to use Universal Laws and Principles on how to draw in ones highest and best mate.
If you are spending a lot of time fixing your partner, consider getting rid of them and pulling in better pickings using Universal Laws.
Don’t waste much time and energy trying to fix or influence your partner to give you what you want.
Just ask them nicely and if they don’t get it, love and accept them and if you feel its highest and best dump their sorry ass.
Emotional Intelligence means you maintain a happy loving positive state and are understanding and empathetic to your partner even though they are not meeting your conditional relationship needs.
Relationship Smart vs Dumb means you realize that relationships are a mutual filling of needs and if your partner does not meet your conditions accept them or leave them if they don’t want to change on their own to meet your needs.
Make sense, let me know.
If you have any questions, just email at relationshipcentre@shaw.ca
Warm Regards
~ Dr. Robby
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My thought was if they had only learned as children how to negotiate for their needs instead of fight.
We have all been brainwashed in the Competitive Adversarial Paradigm to fight for our needs.
The use of Control Drama’s as well as all sorts of manipulations and charms are such a waste of everybody’s time and energy includign the counsellors.
It’s mostly “he said, she said” and can you fix my flawed partner kind of BS we hear in the counselling room. .
People are not taking responsibility for their life and relationship circumstances.
If your partner is flawed look in the mirror and see who drew in someone who was flawed.
Like attracts like.
The fact is thru the Law of Attraction we have brought into our lives the people and circumstances that we may complain about and rail against.
Allow and Accept even if you don’t like it vs using influence and control techniques.
We are trained in our society that we can fix or influence our partners. The reality is most of the time you cannot.
In my book True Love on Demand. I teach people how to use Universal Laws and Principles on how to draw in ones highest and best mate.
If you are spending a lot of time fixing your partner, consider getting rid of them and pulling in better pickings using Universal Laws.
Don’t waste much time and energy trying to fix or influence your partner to give you what you want.
Just ask them nicely and if they don’t get it, love and accept them and if you feel its highest and best dump their sorry ass.
Emotional Intelligence means you maintain a happy loving positive state and are understanding and empathetic to your partner even though they are not meeting your conditional relationship needs.
Relationship Smart vs Dumb means you realize that relationships are a mutual filling of needs and if your partner does not meet your conditions accept them or leave them if they don’t want to change on their own to meet your needs.
Make sense, let me know.
If you have any questions, just email at relationshipcentre@shaw.ca
Warm Regards
~ Dr. Robby
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